Showing posts with label toddlers. Show all posts
Showing posts with label toddlers. Show all posts

Friday, January 12, 2018

7 Quick Takes! A Recap of Life in the Tiny House This Week! The Secrets Homeschoolers Keep, Mom Fail and Random Thoughts!

 It's Friday! We made it! Thank goodness. Because I spent part of the week asking what day it was. It was one of those weird, confusing catch up weeks. I think, mainly because it was our first official week back to life, post holidays and sickness. I felt like a deer caught in the headlights most of the week. 

1. New Year, New Curriculum.

 I am terrible at sticking to some really boring less exciting curriculums. If we get half way in and realize it isn't working for us, we change it. Thankfully, we have most of our core subjects nailed down. It is just a couple that keep getting shifted around. 

 I tried something new with our reading/comprehension at the beginning of the year. The older two did it, but hated it. I got them to stick to it for the first half of the year. When we were prepping to start back they voiced their dislike of that particular area. I mulled it over for about a week and agreed that they shouldn't have to do it, if they hated it that much. They love to read and they do read a good bit. (A large part of their curriculum is independent reading.) I did not want to start making them hate reading. Especially after all the years of encouraging it. Honestly, I should have just left well enough alone this year and stuck with what worked last year.
  
 I also switched Addison back to Life of Fred for math. She finished the math I had for her before Christmas. I know which one she will be switching to, but I feel like we need to take a side road and do some Fred. Fred is awesome. 

We are still struggling in the History department. Why? Because I dropped the ball. (Real life, moment.)  This happens with History and Science, more often than I would like to admit. I have not found a history program that truly fits for us yet. So, I build our own. When I'm on top of it, it is great. I can build a curriculum. I actually enjoy it.

 Then, life happens, and they run out of what I have planned for them, before I am done planning the next section. My goal for this year is to plan the whole year of history in advance. That is how we do most of our subjects. 

We have continued to shift to a more heavy Charlotte Mason approach to our schooling. Below is a small snippet of what they are currently reading. (This is not their full work load.)
Emma
Alex
 

Addison


2. It's not messy, it's 'school mode'!

I was texting my friend Sveta this week, when I should have been doing school with the little one. Yea, I was playing hooky. You caught me. Any-who, we were discussing what we had planned for the day, and what we had accomplished that day. 
I commented that my house was fairly clean (had laundry going, etc, etc, mom stuff). She commented that her house was not clean. Which made me giggle because her house is never dirty. She sends me a picture of her living room as proof. It looked almost exactly like my house, but with different children in it. 
We both agreed that our houses were not exactly dirty at that moment in time. We were just doing school. Once school is finished all of it gets tucked away for the day. Then normal house reappears. 
 We decided to call it 'School Mode'. 

It is almost impossible to homeschool and avoid the daily clutter explosion that happen while school is in session. I refuse to call it messy anymore. Because it is not an accurate representation of our life.

As proof, I'm showing you our house in 'School mode'. It is what it is for about 4-6 hours, then it gets put away for the day. 

 


The cardboard in the background is a project that was in the works. When you live in a little house, school happens everywhere.


3. Jarred Cactus?

 All of the kids were sick for a little over a week. It happened to fall on the first of the month, (When I typically shop for the month.) and during a snow storm with a cold snap of single digits.. I was more or less house bound. Not necessarily because of the snow. Although, I hate driving in the snow. It was because of the kids. 
 I was wondering how I was going to get to the store and manage to get the month worth of groceries with all these sick people.
 Then it occurred to me that between Amazon, Walmart and Sam's Club, I could order 80% of our pantry, household and grocery items without leaving the house. 
Our prime pantry box

I only had to go out once. Dustin brought home pizza on Friday after work. Emma and I loaded up in the van. We picked up our site-to-store order from Sam's, then popped into Aldi. Because of the storm we ended up having to stop at Kroger also. People in our area still function on 'Panic mentality' any time it snows. They buy all the milk, eggs and bread. 

 We were gone maybe 2.5 hours and it was a lot less stress for me.

 Emma and I like to cut up and have fun. We have this rather dry and almost mean sarcastic humor, that I do not allow her (or myself) to use on others. When we go out alone I turn her loose with it. It is very Lorelai and Rory. We even sometimes pick an accent and use it the entire time. 
 We can't help it, it is in our personality. If I don't let her get it out, she uses it at all the wrong times.    So, we came to an agreement that we can use it on each other at certain appointed times. Then we have to turn it off. Plus it teaches her how to control the sarcastic humor that she was born with. Something that I took a long time to learn. 

Something that caught our eye, While looking for a certain type of beans and attempting to use all of the words from different languages that we knew, in one sentence, while speaking in a British accent (I feel the need to mention that I had not had a lot of sleep.)...we found this. It is jarred, pickled? (I assume) cactus?!

I feel the need to try this in the near future! Maybe while we are studying deserts and cacti. Because who doesn't want to read about something rather different (At least to us. We live very far from a desert region. ;) ) and then you get to eat one?!

 


4. The part they don't tell you about homeschooling.

 I'm sure you have heard the jokes about homeschoolers never getting out of their pajamas. There is also the joke about how socially awkward we can be and the media always likes to toss around the 'socialization' scare tactic. 

 What most people don't realize is, we are typically just as busy as the rest of the world.  Between work, the chiropractor, the orthodontist, hair appointments, the dog, basketball, the library and co-op(That is not everywhere we went.) we left the house and were gone basically every day this week. 

We do a lot of 'car schooling'. This is what it looks like. Mom tip, always bring snacks and water! The toddler will act much less like a feral cat. 





5. Speaking of feral cats...

  I think I mentioned co-op started back up this week. We were all so read to go back. I was prepared and excited. Probably more than the kids. 
We get to co-op, unload the car and Anna decides to turn into a thrashing, screaming, psychopath. It was like giving a feral cat a bath most of the day. I have rarely been so embarrassed by one of my toddlers actions. It was terrible. I wasn't even able to help teach my class. We ended up wandering the halls, eating our lunch early, and I spent the better part of the day apologizing to everyone in our path. 
  After she went to bed last night, I was telling Dustin about our day. He pointed out the fact that she was still on steroids and meds. #facepalm Her crazy behavior makes a bit more sense now. Major mom fail. :( 

She isn't usually like that. It was so bad. So, on a positive note. This is how she normally looks and acts.




6. The mug that matches our house perfectly!

While our friend Laura was visiting recently. She told me about a mug that was in the works at our local pottery place.  She said it matched our house and life perfectly. I had to stop in to pick up a special order item that Laura made, later in the week. I happened to see the mug before it went in for its color dip and glaze. I put a hold on it and asked for it in blue and white. Rachel Shepard (I will be doing a feature on her soon.) made this one. She is one heck of a talented potter!  There are so many talented artists housed in this building. It is non profit and they do loads of ministry and work in our community. If you are interested in learning a new craft, supporting a local business and ministry or just purchasing a one of a kind piece of artwork to sip your morning coffee from...go visit The Potter's House!
The kids are taking classes there this month. I'm excited to watch and maybe get my hands dirty as well.


 

7.  Friday thoughts

 I feel like all of this post was about homeschooling and books. That's probably not what you might have been expecting today. This blog is about our lives and our lives encompass a large variety of topics. As life tends to go though, sometimes our lives get more focused on one topic than others. That is how life works. Part of being a part of our blogging life is coming along for the ride with us. We have been focusing on less media, less tv, less electronics etc. Which means more books and more quiet.
We have been doing lots of reading, writing, reflecting and making the right choices in our lives, business and homeschool. It's January, that's what it's all about. 
Dustin is working a lot. Works is going good. When he isn't working, he is spending time with us and or reading his Bible. 
I have been focusing on reading more, making the habit of exercise stick, spending more time with the kids, and making plans for the future of our lives, this blog and our business. We are starting to move into the next season of life with no babies, no debt and the ability to follow our dreams.

We are making the plans and taking the steps now, to make the next ten+ years pretty awesome.  



 Blessings!
~Lyndsay

I'm kicking around the idea of doing a day in the life vlog once  month. As well as some tutorials. There are also plans for a room by room house tour. It has been so long since I vlogged and or even put my face in front of our youtube channel. It is like starting all over again with the butterflies and everything. 
There you go. That's why I haven't vlogged, I get camera shy. Plus the editing takes a while. I don't always have the time to take from my family.  

Friday, December 22, 2017

7 Quick Takes! A Recap of Life in the Tiny House This Week! Sisters, Chocolate Mice, and Dr Anna!

1. Family Night Out

 We promised the kids if they cut out soda for a month we would take them to the movies. They could go wild and have soda, popcorn and candy. We don't actually drink that much of it. However, our schedules had gotten a little crazy and the soda had crept in. Life being like it is lately. We just now got around to taking them. We started the challenge for the month of October. Oops!
The challenge did the trick though. Everyone broke the frequent soda habit that had started.
 We took everyone(Minus Anna. She napped at a friends house.) to see Ferdinand.
We later picked Anna up, did a little shopping and then went out for Dustin's birthday dinner. We had Japanese Steakhouse. Dustin's birthday is Christmas Day, so we try to make it special on another day too.
I took one picture of our night out. I clicked to capture the picture right as the lights went out to start the movie. You can't see it, but this is the oldest three kids, eating popcorn, clutching their candy and sipping soda's.



















2. Candy Exchange at Our Local Bank

 The ladies at our local bank are so nice. We have been with this bank for years, but switched branches when the new business location opened.
 We have all really clicked. I can go in to make a deposit and end up chatting for fifteen minutes.      Sometime in the last month or so, Addison was telling one of them about the Rolo candies that we make for the holidays. The teller proceeds to tell Addison that she also makes candy. She makes chocolate mice. Addison of course is very intrigued. She offered to make us some. So we made her some of ours too. The candy swap took place this week. I'm blown away by these little mice! This woman has to have major skill and patience. I would be chucking tiny mice across the room about half way through a tray of them.
They were almost too cute to eat! But, we did eat them. We shared them with our cousins, friends and even Dustin snatched a few.

 

3. We Caved

 We caved and let the kids open a gift one day this week. Mainly because the oldest two had went to a lot of trouble to design a present for their Dad and they were not going to be able to keep it secret until Christmas Eve.
 They all opened a gift, and I made sure it was a game or something crafty, so it would keep them busy the rest of the week!
Emma opened a string art kit, Addison opened a friendship bracelet kit, Alex opened the battleship game and Anna opened a Dr Kit set.
We are terrible at waiting for Christmas to arrive to give gifts.




4. Dr Anna! Muahaha...

 I told you about the gift opening, to lead into this. Anna loves her Dr kit! She has been treating sick people since she opened her kit. The next morning, Alex was being too lazy to get out of bed on time.
I went to Anna with a very concerned face and told her that Alex was sick and she needed to go to him and help make him better until he was able to get out of bed.
 She ran to get her kit, very seriously looked at me and said 'Baby, Doctor' and trotted off to his room singing a butchered version of the Doc Mc Stuffins song.
I went to the kitchen to drink my coffee, because that Dr kit just paid for itself.

5. Challenge. Accepted.

 Ah, sisters. I'm not sure how this sister thing works. I only had brothers. So the first time that a full on, sister fight, broke out in their room this year, I wasn't sure what to do. I'm still not entirely sure what to do.
 I do find it interesting watching them interact though. This week while at the grocery store...I caved and let Anna sit in one of those gross, germ covered, car-carts. Addison is 7, but still quite small. She wanted in too.
Emma told her there is no way she could still fit in that thing. With just enough sister sarcasm to hit a nerve.
Addison crossed her arms, fluffed her feathers, tapped one slightly heeled boot and said 'Wanna bet?!'

Oh my.

She fit. Probably more out of sheer determination, and wiggling, than actually being the right size.

Like I said, this sister thing is very different. 



I'll let you know if I ever figure it out. For now, I will just rest in the fact that these two sisters managed to figure it out!





6. Lots of Friend and Family

 I forget how full our lives can be. We have lots of homeschool friends, but everyone's schedules are so busy during school. So we try to cram in all of our get togethers and fun while we are all on break.

 This week alone we have had lunch with our cousins, Visited with one family, had a pancake lunch and did crafts with another family. Yesterday my friend and mentor, Laura, came for lunch and to decorate cookies. We are seeing Marie Anne tonight. It is our Christmas with her.
We love getting to take a break and just enjoy all of the people we are blessed to have in our lives.



 

7.

 Merry Christmas From our Family to Yours!


 





 Thank you, for being our readers, and joining us on our journey in life. Our blog and lives wouldn't be the same without all of you!

Merry Christmas to you and yours, from our family, here at the little house in the big woods!


Blessings!

- Dustin, Lyndsay,
 Alex, Emma, Addison and Anna